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3 ways to avoid contention in a divorce

On Behalf of | Aug 24, 2022 | Divorce |

When two Mississippi spouses decide that they’d rather move on in life without each other rather than stay in an unhappy marriage, there are certain issues they must resolve before going their separate ways. Various factors, such as those pertaining to children if the spouses in question are parents, may have a significant impact on their decisions and choices as they strive to achieve a fair settlement. Divorce is never easy, but keeping several things in mind can help prevent a contentious dispute in court.  

It is often possible to secure a divorce without stepping foot inside a courtroom. However. it is not uncommon for litigation to take place, especially if a pair of spouses is unable to agree on important topics, such as finances or child custody. Going to court does not necessarily mean there has to be a heated argument, however.  

Keep these ideas in mind when proceedings begin 

There are three basic ideas to keep in mind that can help to avoid conflict during divorce proceedings:  

  1. A fair settlement, as well as state laws, requires full disclosure and honesty regarding assets and liabilities.  
  2. Focusing on proceedings as a business transaction rather than thinking about the emotions that a marital breakup can stir helps keep things moving in a positive direction. 
  3. Support resources are available, specifically to help a concerned spouse/parent protect his or her interests and children’s well-being. 

Keeping these ideas in mind while navigating a divorce settlement, especially one that includes child custody issues, can help a spouse avoid problems in the courtroom.  

Post-divorce support network  

Once a divorce is finalized, it does not mean professional support will no longer be available to a Mississippi parent who is helping his or her children adapt to a new lifestyle. Family members, close friends, counselors and legal advocates may stay closely connected to a newly divorced parent. They can step in to provide encouragement and practical support, as needed.